Manifest Manifesto

So, I'm a pastor of a small church. Recently realized that I need to be discipling the couples in my church (duh). Went away for some R&R. I came back from vacation excited about building into people's lives...and now they're all (seemingly) trying to dodge me. How frustrating when the people who need to meet with you won't. Perhaps I have not explained the point of the meetings clearly enough. Perhaps they are pagans who want to stay that way...